Why elena chooses damon

Despite continuously searching for him, Elena and Damon began spending more time together and growing closer. Despite this, however, both of them remained intent on staying loyal to Stefan.

Damon continued helping to reunite them, even at the expense of his own happiness. Things changed further still when, in The Vampire Diaries season 4, episode 1, "Growing Pains," Elena completed her transition into a vampire.

It was previously established that a side effect of that particular transformation is heightened emotions. Elena would especially fall prone to those during her time as a vampire.

That was most notably prevalent during her grief following the death of her brother, Jeremy Steven R. However, it also played a component of her eventually choosing Damon in The Vampire Diaries season 4, episode 23, "Graduation". As a human, Elena was more effectively able to compartmentalize her feelings for Damon and prioritize her loyalty to Stefan. Once she was a vampire, however, her love was magnified.

As such, it was revealed to eclipse her feelings for Stefan and could no longer be easily ignored. Him being angry at Elena does not justify him murdering Aaron to purposefully hurt her. What's more, Elena rarely addresses Damon's anger issues. Instead, she continues to forgive him, over and over again, making for a dynamic that's truly awful. Essentially, this bond is one between a vampire and a hybrid species. Eventually, Elena becomes sired to Damon, thus making her loyal to him.

Regardless of what she wants to do, she's forced to do whatever is asked of her, and this is when the two first become a couple. Elena later claims that she had feelings for Damon before being turned.

However, immediately after the bond between the two breaks, their relationship ends. Understandably, the on-again, off-again relationship is much more strained when she's not being compelled to be with him. This plotline also has a number of issues of consent. Much more than it ever used to be. It's like everything that I felt for him before I was a vampire…" Stefan : "Has been magnified.

Your feelings for him have been magnified. I don't want to lie to you. I mean, I practically drove you to it. But now I can't do this, Elena. Not anymore. I said I wanted to. And then I realized, I'm not sorry. But you know what I really am? Selfish, because I make bad choices that hurt you. Yes, I would rather have died than be human.

I'd rather die right now than spend a handful of years with you, only to lose you when I'm too old and sick and miserable and you're still you. I'd rather die right now than spend my last final years remembering how good I had it and how happy I was, because that's who I am, Elena, and I'm not gonna change. And there's no apology in the world that encompasses all the reasons that I'm wrong for you. I'm not sorry that I met you. I'm not sorry that knowing you has made me question everything, that in death you're the one that made me feel most alive.

You've been a terrible person, you've made all the wrong choices, and of all the choices that I've made this will prove to be the worst one. But I am not sorry that I'm in love with you. I love you , Damon. I love you. Stefan to Elena possessed by Katherine : "Alright. The truth is, ever since the first time I noticed you're falling for my brother, I have been waiting for him to screw something up so badly that you hate him. So I've been waiting and watching him do all these horrible things and then every single time I think he's gone too far, he's there for you, sometimes in ways better than I ever was.

So the truth is, after a while I just stopped waiting for him to fail because I liked the person he had become -- and I don't want to lose that person. Alaric about Elena : : "I'm trying to get her to figure out when she first fell in love with Damon but she--can't seem to get there.

That she fell in love with Damon while she was still with Stefan. I was being completely honest. Do you think I want to talk to you about my romantic life?

Look, I want to hear all the Damon stuff--while you were still with Stefan. The entire time, I never would have hurt him. There's nothing wrong with that. It's okay. That's what Katherine used to say. He needs to move on with his life, and Being with you wasn't one of them, and, yes, I had Alaric compel away my love for you, and, yes, I did love Stefan once.

The night I died, Matt was driving me back to him, and yet I found my way back to you. Damon, I somehow always find my way back to you. It doesn't matter if I have memories or not. It doesn't matter if I'm a vampire or not. I don't care what human me would have done because she's not here. And if the past is a place without you and me together, then stop living in it. We loved each other, but she was also the only person I've ever met who actually believed that my brother was worth loving, and she reminded me that I used to believe that about him, too.

And her faith in him, it brought Damon and me back together. And yeah I--I loved her more than I could ever thought I could love somebody else. But I think, in the end, I needed him more then I needed her. Cade : "This exact choice has defined your life since the moment you and your brother first laid eyes on Elena. Being torn between the two has only brought both of you an immeasurable amount of pain and suffering. It can end now.

Stefan's mortal. He's lived a supremely messed-up life. But there's So since I really have no clue what Zodiac sign Damon or Elena is. I will put characteristics about Each sign and then maybe we can see which Describes Each personality best. I love horoscopes and think that they are fun. Their stubbornness sometimes causes their failure, they will continue Everyone Loves Delena